Quick congrats to MNB. I'm truly inspired that you tried each time and look at you now - you're an old hand!

Kaytee, welcome and well done on 12 mths. I never had a negative comment in four years of bfing DD1, so I hope your good run continues. Mind you, we didn't bf in public much after 18 mths, because mostly she was a sleepy time feeder.

Netix, can you try cold compresses or a cold cabbage leaf for the engorgement? It will settle down, but not fun in the meantime.