Yay for DS letting you get in a decent sleep... Hoping that continues on for you.

Another book I read, which I took a few things from, and I know I will come back to later, is a Dr Sears, "The fussy baby book : parenting your high-need child from birth to age five" ... It had some good things in it about high needs babies, and how to address these needs. (he has a web site too).