Alish,

I have read what you have posted & I think it sounds like you are going along just fine! Continue with decreasing the formula and this should increase your milk b/c bubs will feed more from you. Bubs is still so young and really all babies feed differently. So, your Hayden feeds four hourly and others babies demand feed - sound 'normal' to me! I personally wouldn't wake a sleeping baby, unless they were really unsettled at night, then I'd wake more during the day for feeds (JMO of course). FWIW my gf comp feed her DS and then exclusively bf him up until about 12 mo. Best of luck Alish, you sound like you are working it all out from here!