I LOVE my Milk Bar feeding pillow. Have used it with all three bubs and accidentally left it at my sister's house for a week. Boy was I lost without it. Other cushions/pillows just didn't cut it, especially now that she's 5 months and getting longer, she lies totally on the pillow, (whereas, her legs were dangling off a normal pillow). I don't use the strap (how are you meant to do it up/un-do it while holding a baby?). Anyway, it's more supportive than a normal tri pillow and has been the perfect height for me. Its also good if you need to do football hold, as it curves around your body. It's my all time favourite baby essential!