The fact that you dislike milk so much is a fairly clear sign that you are allergic to it or intolerant. but dairy is in so many things that we eat. And it sounds likely that you have other allergies and intolerance. The good thing is that the course of problems with your little one will follow the course you followed - she will grow out of much of it - and it will be easier if you breastfeed. I see such a lot of women who are sold the false hope that it will be better if they are on formula - but it generally isn't!