Sammi - I've tried all different teats, non spill sippy cups (they need lots of milk too though to get into the rubbery bit )Just re-read - might have to try a non-valved one. Ive tried mum giving it to her with me not here, DH at times although he isnt here alot of the time. Her limit is 3 hourly at the moment with feeds - so I guess I could maybe get mum to come up at lunch and I could feed her at school and see how we go - I would be pretty distracted wondering how she is if I left her. Might have a trial run and see how we go.

Could try a straw I guess - arrrgghhhhhhhh so frustrating! Thanks for the advice ladies!