Luvabub, I didn't see any attacking at all, only healthy discussion, some people were in agreeance with some points with you there. There is no right or wrong in here, only your experience which I will highlight by submitting this to parliament. Everyone has different levels of experience, knowledge and understanding, and this is where the blow-ups often occur, because we all did what was best for us and / or our baby at the time... so any insinuation that it was otherwise is going to touch a raw nerve. Thank-you for your input Luvabub and I look forward to this being heard in parliament. Perhaps you could also check out the other thread and consider submitting your own story via email to be added to the Inquiry.