i hope no one takes this the wrong way but my biggest problem is people wanting me to explain why i do some things that come with bfing but then they get upset when i ask them why they did what they did. i wasnt talking about mothers that have had an issue before and so didnt wanna try again although u do never know till you try,or mums that have tried and had huge issues,or mums that couldnt cause of medical reasons all of those women at some point gave it a go at least even if it didnt last out they didnt find help they maybe could have or they may have got it working with second child if they had tried again. all of those reason are understandle. i know how hard it can be to lots of eople in those situation and i dont blame them. the mums i was really talking about is the first time mum who wont even consider trying,the first time mum that gives up cause she wants to for herself, the young mum who cant hack being a mum so she just wont do or try bfing.those are the mums that get me upset over this topic not the other mums that at least tried once b4