Thanks everyone.

I've got an appointment to get his tongue checked at his 4 month check up next Monday. Thankfully we now have a wonderful Dr who I really trust so I think if his tongue is causing problems she'll be able to help. DH remembers our midwife mentioning the tongue tie and saying it's only minor, but if it causes problems to get it looked at. I mustn't have been paying attention because I don't remember it but he says that's the only reason he knows anything about tongue tie lol.
If that's a problem for him and it needs to be snipped, how do they do that? At 4 months does he get anesthetic? Do the nurses there doing his injections do it or do we need a hospital referral? Neither of us like the idea of it, the injections are bad enough.

I wasn't able to get onto an LC yet, I'll try again tomorrow morning. I've had a look at that site MadB and there's one that looks like she'd come out here. I think there used to be a more local ABA group but there were very few members, now there's just one closer to the city. Because things were so simple with DD I went and let my membership lapse. If I can't get directly onto the LC though I'll give them a call, I'm still getting their emails.

After he woke from his nap he fed four times. I offered the right first every time because it doesn't hurt much, but he kicked up a big stinky every time I tried the right and then when I swapped to the left he got all excited and latched straight on. The first three weren't too bad, it actually hurt less each time. Then the fourth time he closed his mouth a bit just before latching, sucked right on and pulled Mega ouchies and blood

So now he's had a bath, he's exhausted and hungry, poor bugger. He's having a feed and going to sleep on the right which feels fine, but when he's done he's going to want the left too before bed. I just hope the lansinoh and leaving it out has helped enough for that.