Sorry for being so direct - but you shouldn't have to sacrifice breastfeeding because your husband won't take up his share of the parenting duties. At this point, it's all hands on deck. It seems nice and tidy because he can see "she's crying for you and you've got the boobs" But when she's on the bottleshe will still want you. Somethings got to give - why not the hubby or the 2 yr old? Why the baby?