SJ, you've been given some great tips. Yes, it's important to line her nose up with your nipple. Also as AJP said to tuck her chin into your breast. And to be chest to chest ie. make sure she is facing your body, not tilted back looking at you etc if that makes sense. You see older babies being cradled and leaning back looking up at mum, but it's not good for newborns learning to attach well.

ABA counsellors can do alot over the phone, that's what they're trained to do They'll certainly be able to help you with attachment, and describing how to feed lying down comfortably. You can definitely call without being a member, though being a member is great

Glad you had a breakthrough feed before, it will definitely get easier over time!