babyluv, you're doing such a top job for your little girl! Those first few weeks are so tough, you've just had a very serious experience (giving birth on way or another) and now you're responsible 24/7 for a brand new little life who relies on you for everything ... and you're doing so well, whether it feels like it or not!

one thing I found was that I had to do all sorts of things to stop DS from falling asleep on the boob before he was full ... tickling his toes, unwrapping him, changing his nappy between boobs, blowing air gently on his face, etc. Otherwise he'd drink up the foremilk, not be as thirsty, and fall asleep before getting much of the hindmilk ... and he'd be hungry again, in another hour!

I found that a full feed actually took anything up to 60 minutes to achieve - but when he had it, he'd be full for at least 2-3 hours, and I often would have to wake him up for his next feed.

one of the best things you can do for your body and your baby right now though is to get some sleep ... I know everyone says "sleep when the baby sleeps" and then bubba goes down and you can see the dishes/washing/emails/shower/bills/etc ... but seriously, sleep needs to be a priority for a little while, at least until bub is sleeping for a few hours overnight!

and another thing which I found good, was I'd have things ready to eat, so that when I went to feed DS, I could make a BIG hot drink, grab my bottle of water, and take something to eat, to (theoretically) mean that when DS was asleep, I was free to go lay down too because sleep and food/water are some of the best ways you can keep you and your milk supply strong and healthy

good luck! you're among friends, and we really, really understand how tough those first weeks are.