I second the Jay Gordon approach to night weaning. I liked his gentle approach and the fact that he covers co-sleeping as well. We haven't been doing it strictly as he recommends to wait until 12 months but DS is having one night feed at the moment compared to 3-4 a month or so ago. I can cope with that for now and when he hits 12 months I might try and follow it more strictly and see how we go.

All those wake ups are so hard, but I understand there comes a time when you just need to sleep! Good luck with it, and I hope you are able to get some more rest soon