Thank you everyone for your lovely words and support! Got to love this place

Its hard to remember when their so little and you're so tired that it will pass all too quickly! He's still so small as well I suppose and we're all still adjusting!
We've had a mix of good days and bad days, but its getting better! I've found the evenings I'm on my own (like tonight) that rather than feed DS so frequently (sometimes he'd feed then settle for 10mins then be looking for a feed), I've put him in the sling and he's settled really well, so tonight we had a succesful dinner time, bath time and bed time with no tears from any of us I've decided I'm going to do this every evening now - last night, DD was fine during the frequent feedings, but when DH got home from work and had hold of DS, so I could get DD ready for bed - she was realliy playing up, and kept yanking my hair - I figured she was punishing me. DH doesn't get home normally till 7 and tonight is out later, so I figure the sling is going to help a lot!

Thanks again