its very hard being alone
everyone kept telling me " it will get better as time goes on " ........yeah no!! it hasnt gotten any easier it breaks my heart everytime he has to go back!! DD misses him heaps to but she is sort of use to it IYKWIM, he has been doing it for so long that it doesnt really affect her that much.......plus she loves sleeping in mums bed when dads at work lol
i just needed to hear from someone that moving to a s*itty little town "is ok" and that dd will be fine, with the small school and nothing to do in the town! i grew up in a small town and it was that bad! plus on dh days off we can go to the beach
I was going to say I would move to DH too. Missing DH and Daddy is different to missing friends/shopping centres/the beach... You get the idea. If your heart says to be with him, then that is the right thing to do. And especially if you feel that DD would benefit from being in a smaller school too.
Good luck with getting everything moved! And you wouldn't really be alone, you've got all of us here on BB!
And moving to a s**tty little town and run down house is okay too. DD will have a ball, and you will all enjoy going to the beach together as a family.
Last edited by Netix; March 9th, 2011 at 11:34 AM.
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move where Nath is personally not sure where he is working but no way I could live away from jase even if it was 7 on 7 off....we considered it briefly when work was talkign about doing this and he asked if I'd want to put a house on the block at agnes I was like no way...I need to be with you
go move with Nath, you know in your heart its the right thing, maybe when lttle girl is in highschool move to the beach but for now go be with nath
rach i am trying to move to springsure......just applied for the ONLY house that is up for rent....and she rang me to say its been filled
i have been ringing and hounding the realestate out there for WEEKS now, trying to find a place or to see if there is one coming up that would be available, but there has been nothing!! until this house, she only sent me the application forms yesterday and i filled them in and emailed them back this morning and she just rang to say they have already found someone
now i am really stuck!! we are running out of time and we need to find a house to move into but there is nothing in springsure......so it looks like i have no choice now but to move to zilzie and hope and pray that a house comes available at the end of the 6 mths lease that we sign with this new house. but this also means that chloe would have to move schools twice i am not to sure weather i want to do that to her!
maybe this is god's way of telling me that we arent suppose to be moving there....yet?
It has to be easier to find places, once you are living closer to where there are possible homes to rent are imho. There could well be some obscure home where the landlord doesn't want to go through the real estate agents, or a friend of a friend up there.
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