its very hard being alone
everyone kept telling me " it will get better as time goes on " ........yeah no!! it hasnt gotten any easier it breaks my heart everytime he has to go back!! DD misses him heaps to but she is sort of use to it IYKWIM, he has been doing it for so long that it doesnt really affect her that much.......plus she loves sleeping in mums bed when dads at work lol

i just needed to hear from someone that moving to a s*itty little town "is ok" and that dd will be fine, with the small school and nothing to do in the town! i grew up in a small town and it was that bad! plus on dh days off we can go to the beach