Um lots of women like the big granny undies - but I actually preferred DH's hipster undies, the thigh holes were bigger so I didn't have to struggle to get my fat thighs in them so much, PLUS, they were the right height to hold the pad against the scar. Oh - and with the extra "gap" at the front, they don't get tight when you are wearing a pad to catch your uh.. flow .. either.