Thanks for your great post Tara - it is really helpful to me!

Also, I have the issue too where hubby is a foot taller than me and I am of small build and I'm sure that has something to do with my baby measuring big for me and for my gestation. I'd love to feel guaranteed I could safely birth my baby naturally but I can't feel confident of that, so will let the ob do all the work getting her out in a c-section.....