Berry,
I have the issue too where hubby is a foot taller than me and I am of small build and I'm sure that has something to do with my baby measuring big for me and for my gestation.
My SIL is 4 foot 9 and my brother about 5 foot 8, the whole way through she was told she was having a big bub. The fact that there sure wasn't as much room in her body for bub to stretch out showed with a nice round tummy. Bub was a big boy, he was born at 4.04kgs. She did an awesome job, no epidural, gas for the last 30 minutes and not a graze in sight.

My other SIL is tiny, she is 5foot tall but only a size 8 (well, she was back then) my brother 6 foot 2, she went on to birth 2 little girls, who were both only around the 6 pound mark. I truely believe that your body will only grow a baby that you can birth. It will only grow what it can fit inside of it.

At the end of the day though, if a c section is truely what you want, don't feel like you need to justify your decisions. It just makes it sound like you aren't confidient in your own decisions.

Brooke, haven't seen you around in ages. Hope you and the kiddies are going well.