Hi All,

I know this forum is a little old now, but I thought I'd share my experience anyway

what was it like?
Awesome. I knew I was having a C-section as I had asked for one. Was clearly advised by my OB GYN how everything was going to happen - so I felt really ready and prepared. Even went into the fact he was going to use staples on my wound instead of stitches as apparently it gives a neater scar. I don't know if this is true - but my scar is barely noticable now and very neat.
good aspects of the surgery?
I knew exactly when my little man was arriving and was calm and ready. We were booked in 1st thing on a Monday morning a week before I was due, so I was lucky enough to be able to work right up until the Friday prior. We arrived at the hospital at 6.30am to 'check in'. Was weighed, baby's heart rate checked, completed some forms, had some numbing cream put on my hand for the drip and met our mid-wives (who were fantastic!) Was taken in on my own to have the epidural at 8am - apparently partners are not allowed in during this time, but as soon as they started cutting, DF was able to come in. Little man was born at 8.30am. Happened SO quickly! They had him checked in the room by the paediatrician and given to Dad for a cuddle and a visit outside to see Nanny whilst they finished closing me up - and then all 3 of us went into recovery for about a half an hour when he had his first feed. He never left our sides for the remainder of the stay.
not-so-good aspects of the surgery?
I'm not going to sugar coat it, and I think the operative word is 'surgery' It is pretty major surgery, so expect to be in a bit of pain. I couldn't walk for about 24 hours afterwards so DF had to carry me into the bathroom so I could have a shower. I thing the trick is to get yourself mobile as soon as you can, but don't over do it. I took as little pain medication as I could so that I'd know if I was overdoing it. The second day in hospital I was up on my own (hobbling at first) and everyday it got easier. I got pretty bored as my little one would sleep non stop, so I used to walk the hallways pushing him in his bed for support. They recommend you stay in hospital for min 5 days but I discharged myself after 3 becuase I was feeling fine and felt well enough to be able to care for bubs on my own.
involvement of your partner/DH?
amount of time between the surgery and holding your baby? About half an hour
recovery issues? I was lucky, my C-Section didn't really faze me too much, and I don't know if this is becuase I was prepared for it and knew what to expect? I went back to hospital a week afterwards for a final check of me and bubs and removal of my staples which was completely pain free
tips for good recovery? Kepping positive and keeping yourself moving
any issues with breastfeeding? None, my milk ran out after 8 weeks - but I don't know if this was because of the casearean as it's only my first
tips for getting yourself psychologically ready for a c-section? Just ask your OB GYN exactly what is going to happen on the day. DO NOT read horror stories online about C-sections, they will only make you nervous. To an extent - your experience is helped by your attitude

Hope this helps

Ems
xx