I think you are doing the best thing to save yourself from the emergency, as I will do in future, as I think thats when things tend to go wrong. I just have to work out now what I am going to do even before i thnk about trying to conceive. I have such bad scarring all over my abdomen that they are talking of having to do a vertical c-section to avoid the other 2 scar tissue - join the dots so to speak - although may have to have laparotomy scar sniped to allow for pregnant belly, and i still dont know if my stomach muscles will cope - anyway all these things I want to get sorted before the next one, otherwise considering adoption because after not being able to bond with my son and still feel that I am jsut a care taker, that I thnk that my husband and I can cope with that, anyway, commencing proceedings against my doc for neglecting to commence testing and I am still not coping.
I wish you the best, jsut remember, if you think something is wrong it usually is, so dont worry about being difficult to the doctors.