Go and have fun in here nevsta......you'll be surprised what treasures of info you'll find, and the chickies who give it are even better

As for the pelvic floor issues...as I said Ive had 4 c/s and my PF isnt what it use to be as I carried very low with 3 of my 4 pgs and the pressure...**** it did my head in.

Please dont go on what your friends have said or have done...you are your own person...do the reasearch...find your feet to what feels comfortable and take control of your birth.

Other down effect of elective c/s...horrible scar and i now have an 'apron' of skin that hands, lop sidedly may I add, over my woo hoo section. Not a very attractive look.

Id have given anything to have had a baby vaginally if Id had the choice. As scarey as childbirth seems....having someone cut you open and take your baby out of your tummy scares me even more.

Most of all....dont be a stranger...we're here to hear you and help you