Hi Nevsta, I had my first child in April and had a vaginal birth, but when i was first preggers i really didnt want to, to start off with i was wanting a CS all the way as i had some issues "down there" in the past and was scared that i would get half way through and not be able to do it. After speaking with my dr and midwife they said i should be right, so i started doing some research and the best thing i found that broke the 2 down in to simple easy to understand language was the DVD Being Dad. it was great and made me see the pros and cons of both, although some scenes were a little graphic!
Good luck which ever way you go and remember it's your birth your body so you are always in control. Take care and enjoy your pregnancy