Thanks ladies for your advice.. I'm still sticking to telling people I am having the caesar but I am ready with my facts to shoot back at them when they start the "you have not given birth" type of lines they go on with.

I do tell them that I hope they never have to go through a bad labour and end up with an emergency c/s. I also tell them that I am more than happy to have one and that "I think my OB knows a bit more than you do!"

I've been reading up on it to.. so I think I am pretty prepared!