OMG Kirsty.. The easy way out! I also got that comment!!! Some people are just plain awful. I had one of DH's mates tell me that I should've pushed harder! How much harder could I have pushed? Even though we could see DD's head, she was stuck and wasn't going anywhere!!

PrincessT, I don't have any other advice to offer, you have been given some great advice already. I hope all those nasty people keep their opinions to themselves!

Nic