Carly. Try not to get too stressed.

is it really that bad???? - well I guess that depends on how bad you expect? To be honest it was worse than i expected, but that's because I kidded myself about it being easy.

Yep, you bleen like after normal labour, but I think they do remove some of the blood etc so you probably don't bleed quite as much.

Yep, you'll be able to look after bubs. Picking up bub is fine & you can look after it, but don't try to do housework etc for a while.

Anyway, I hope you don't have to worry about any of this!!! Come on little bubba!!!!