Debbie thats a great idea, there are some excellent books out there that I have read in preparation for VBAC but also for making decisions IF something happens again so I can be better prepared. In my birth plan I have details specific to c/s and what I want to happen. After Matilda, I went a bit crazy and anxious on the morphine & actually ripped my drip out of my arm 4 hours after surgery... it worked well for me