I am visiting my OB next week (25 weeks) and was wondering if I would be jumping the gun to start asking him about my c/s?

I have the following questions. Please help me make it more "Rounded" and add if I am missing something really important

1) Can I book a date NOW ... I want to be the first c/s of the day
2) If my husband does not want to sit with me during the c/s (looooong story), can I ask BOTH my parents?? I can understand if they tell me there is no room (my dad's in a wheelchair), but I would like to know if that is a reasonable request. And if they can't both come, can I ask someone else?
3) Can I hold my baby as soos as he is deliverd? One of my gf said that they don't allow it, because it's a sterile operation ?? Is there anything I can say to debunk that?
4) What is better ... epidural or spinal (ETA: What's the difference)
5) I want to start breastfeeding asap

That's all I have for now... Do you think it's to early to start talking about this now? Seeing that my first came at 34 weeks, I would like SOME form of control.