Sakoon - my DS was frank breech too and after lots of reading and research, plus trying to turn him (weird experience isn't it?) I had a c-section. For me - it became a really positive experience. Although I was basically numb and couldn't feel DH even touching my feet, I felt them lift my baby from my body so I definiately had some kind of sensation. I had a fabulous midwife who talked me through what they were doing and she encouraged me to take deep breaths, like you would in labour as he was being lifted out. I think for me, this really helped me feel like I had done something. It's kind of hard to explain but I see it as "I gave birth", not "I had to have a c-section" and I only look back on it with a really positive feeling. DS was in with me in recovery, and I feed him straight away. My recovery was really good - take the pain meds even if you feel like you don't need them. I picked up some great tips on c-section and recovery from the girls on here.
I wish you all the best for your coming birth and hope meeting your little one is a wonderful experience.