I was in Royal Women's Melbourne and was in a double room. DD was taken away to Royal Children's straight away due to a birth defect, and it sucked being in a room with someone else and their baby.
DH was able to stay in the Women's accomodation which was only a few blocks away. We just had to talk to the social worker to make sure he could.
But, again, that could have been because of DD's defect or the fact that I had to deliver in Melbourne which is 500kms away from home.

I'm so sorry about your daughter.