Tootie - the mental health thing I feel is very important.....I don't know whether unborn babies can feel stress from their mothers, but if they can it can't be good!

Jo - I hope that you only had the dreaded forceps with one of your girls - as it does sound awful and it is terribly frightening for me....

I thought that you had your baby at 38wk if you were having a c/s too - but maybe for the first one they would make you wait a little longer as first babies are often overdue?

Megan