Tootie - I am absolutely appalled that someone would say that to you!!!! :mad: Makes me want to scream actually! Some people are sooooo rude and inconsiderate! What did you say?

Min - I have a weak pelvic floor (but will find out how bad it is on Friday when I see a physio) but I am thinking that it is the best option for me. I don't want any permanent damage and I don't want to go through an 18 hour labour to have a c/s anyway and I really don't want a forceps delivery!! I am still waying up the options - but I feel so uncomfortable about a natural birth.....yes - we should swap situations! I will make a decision over the next few weeks. I really wanted to hear from people in my situation that are having a c/s by choice as I know that they have got to be out there on this site as I have met plenty around lately...when are you booked in Min?

Megan