Celebrate the way you mother your baby, not how you birthed her. Birth is one tiny part of being a mum. Lovely if it's everything you imagined but really, in the whole scheme of things, not that important (to me).

I love what you have written but I do feel that sometimes this can really disable someone's ability to process there loss. Only when someone has moved passed that point in their grief can they move forward in their healing.

Do I make any sense?