Hun, only you can make this decision and it sounds like a really tough one so I wish you all the best. The thing that strikes me from your op though, is that the ob is saying he'd prefer not to do c/s. We all know that a lot of obs go the other way with c/s, so that alone says something for me. Personally before making the decision I'd be talking to your ob more to see what his reasons are, and also getting stats on the liklihood of needing the pevlis reconstruction. Best of luck hun.