I keep wondering about this. I think the fact that we're pretty sure we're not having anymore kids, but not 100% decided makes it hover around the edges of my brain. (Although DH says he IS 100% decided ) Mamaspice, you are right that having already birthed vaginally will impact positively on my confidence. It's the other stuff I worry about.....what if we have the same pregnancy issues, and that leads to having another c/s? Not that c/s is the worst in the world, but I do think it took me longer to bond with DS2 because of his birth. I still loved him, and wanted to protect him, but it took longer to feel that connection, IYKWIM? And then there's all the breastfeeding stuff!

Hmmm, I wouldn't say I stress about it, just it's on my mind a bit, if that makes sense. It's the unknown I think! And a big part of that unknown is whether I will even have to worry about it at all. I know we should be finished with having kids, and I know it's for the best, but I have just have this feeling that we're not done. I think that's for another thread, I'm just rambling now