I think I get what you mean. With every baby I had I begged to have a VB and was refused....a huge feeling of defeat sweeped over me everytime.
I dont however think it should turn anyone off having children though. Educating yourself is one thing but at the end of the day if your baby need's to be born via c/s it will be taken out of your hands. No its not a pleasant road to walk down and every c/s is different...all 4 of mine have been.

Even though my shop is closed, I often think about having a dream VB