Hun, You know hindsight is 20/20. Do you think it might be healing to get alongside this girl and tell her that you had a horrible birth experience and want to help her to have a reat experience? It may be healing for you to help someone to do the research, and to really encourage her to have a birth.

You know we are all here for you.

You know what? I think you ARE strong. You are doing everything you can to help you process the way your children came into this world. You are not sitting back and keeping quiet about how you feel. You are healing yourself, and you need to be srong to do that.

Just remember, You are never alone, and when you need us, we are there.