Congrats on your pregnancy Ellie, nice to hear from someone who i can relate to. I think experiencing the trials of the ivf process can make us more anxious about everything and more worriesome. Thankfully i have not had to deal with an ectopic though, you are a strong lady!

I would like the same as you, an obstetrician who will be open to my choice should i decide to go that way. Its good that you have the support of your gp and obstetrician. Hopefully mine will be the same when i see them in a few weeks time.