Personally, no i wouldn't have a c/s unless my baby's life was REALLY in danger (ie not just because Dr wants to go home - ok just a little cynical sorry!).

Have a little read of some of the articles about labour and birth on this site and arm yourself with all of the information about the risks associated with c/s. Unfortunately you can't rely on being told all of this by health care professionals. Be aware that having a c/s MAY inhibit things such as bonding and breastfeeding. Also do not forget that what goes in to you also goes in to your baby so when you are talking about pain relief, consider the effects on baby too. In the end, if you make an INFORMED decision then you will make the choice that is right for you and your family.

Your body will get that baby out - and the more you trust in your body and your personal strength and ability the easier it is likely to be. Having had 2 natural drug-free births I couldn't understand WHY all the fear about birth. Yes it is uncomfortable, but what people don't tell you is the over-whelming rush of hormones that makes you feel as high as a kite and TOTALLY besotted with your baby the minute he/she is in your arms. Drugs and surgery WILL inhibit this. It's true, there is no medals for bravery after a natural birth, but the reward is an alert, healthy newborn who has every opportunity to self attach to the breast and bond with mum STRAIGHT away and who is surrounded by love and people that care about him/her (ie not a whole lot of gowned-up doctors and nurses and bright lights and dad who is watching not participating).

You have the strength to do this - i know because you are a mum and that's our super-power but at the end of the day if you know all the risks and still decide that a c/s is right for you then i'm sure you can help to lessen the associated risks.