I really dont know, as I do not have to live with your back pain etc, but I do know what it is like to have a c.section and recover from it. Recovery going well can still be difficult on your body. You are not as mobile and this restricts what you are capable of in terms of caring for your home, self and baby. It can take up to 2 mths to be able to drive again etc.

Hope you get some more answers soon.

Best of luck making your decision