To answer your questions:-

I have had a c/section for no medical reason and basically because I felt I couldn't do it physically and that I was too scared to even try to do it. Recovery from this c-section was fantastic - I was up and walking good distances within a few days post op and on panadol for most of recovery (due to a mix up with drugs).

I also had a second c/section - (not by choice though -I was striving for a VBAC) recovery was even better 2nd time around, but I developed an infection which laid me up for about a month. Also had pelvic problems (my pelvis was separated and my hip had rotated - very painful) so couldn't walk properly for about a month afer it.

I knew that I was too terrified of a natural birth that even if I attempted it, I would have ended up with a c-section anyway because I had no faith in myself to do it. But thats ME - not you.

Good luck with what you decide to do.