Oh Great!! Thanks for the info on the catheter ... I'm a bit jittery about that .. ok I'm scared
I'll make sure he knows that he is NOT suppose to hurt me, or make me uncomfy.

Lila - I'll definatly be trying to persuade him to let me hold bub .. Your 3rd c/s sounded so nice. I hope mine goes as well. I also think I might go for the spinal (heck they both have to do with needles) ... I'm ok with pain, my first c/s were not bad, so I think I will do fine with just some pills for the pain afterwards.

Nic - WOW! Thank you! I have more questions for him now I will also be using the stapels again .. I loved them. He did not give me a choice with my first c/s (there were no time) but I'm glad he used them. It's so pretty .. the scar. I aslo don't need to meet the anaethetist, because my OB does the spinals/epidurals himself. It's only the general that he does not do and I am not opting for that. DH said no to cutting the cord, BUT we had a break through and he will DEFINATLY be joining me in the theater Thanks on the tip about asking if camaras/video is allowed.

I''ll let you know what he says