Gigi, I wonder if making an appt with the Social Worker at Clink would help. I know they have cut those services back alot but I think it's worth a try especially considering the whole background here. If it was me assessing this I would be fine (but I know you have been wanting out for a long time ) with granting it - but I would have flagged it to review at a later date. I found someone had done sep under one roof for 8 YEARS - and that's just not what it's for, hence the piles of paperwork.

Musekat - if you are sharing bank accounts with someone, you aren't properly separated.