i am meant to be rushing out the door right now, so will only make a quick reply

1. THANKS for your kind posts
2. Monday night, bilby's dad came home, acted like nothing happened!!! (so bizarre)

will come back later today to update better and do replies. it's hard for me to reply when he's home. bilby and i spent most of yesterday in doctor's waiting rooms.

anyway, the proverbial did NOT hit the fan on Monday night - like i was expecting. Maybe he is only going to react when he comes home and bilby & me are gone. The Land Of Delusion continues for bilby's dad.