when my kids need me i go to the end of the earth to help them , spend whatever it takes to help them, go to such a huge extent.
Once one of my kids wasnt doing well and for years i had to give them massive levels of support eg take them away at weekends as they couldnt cope with daily life and help solve many things work, sleep, health, boyfriend, friends.
I spent money i didnt really have with love and now she is flourishing.
she recently had a crisis with her boyfriend and again i helped save the day.
yet suddenly she is turning on me as she feels criticised of the damage she did during a recent crisis of a sibling, actions she took and kept taking that actually were putting the sibling in danger.
another child also went through a terrible crisis recently and i had to do so much to help her and it was so difficult and nervewracking but it helped to get her back to her old energetic healthy self or do much better. next thing i know she is backstabbing and angry.
i am sick of being the punching bag and scapegoat of rude temperamental children.
i am sick of helping them without hesitation in very difficult situations only to be turned on the second they are doing ok,
and yet i know i probably will be like a relative of mine who was abused by her child terribly and yet would come with love and help whenver she could and whenver she was needed.
at present i am feeling distraught at being used as a scapegoat and punching back of 2 very rude and nasty children, after going to the end of the earth to help them time and time again.
feeling abused by adult children
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