Trish

Firstly I wanted to say that you are the most amazing mother so please please don't forget that.

I was talking to DH about this situation. He had a bit of a troubled childhood. He ran away from home at when his parents divorced and didn't get into trouble as much but it was heading that way. I asked him why he didn't end up in trouble and his answer was martial arts. He has studied a number of martial arts since the age of 4 and he said that it tought him respect, discipline and self control. I know it isn't going to be a quick fix, but perhaps if DS finds an interest such as martial arts, he will begin to get back on track. A way of redirecting all that negative energy. Getting him there is the first step and it is really only the tip of the iceberg, but I just thought I'd mention it for what its worth.

HTH
Lv Spring