Hugs FJ.

Sounds like our place 2-3 days a week.

DD can just be a little B**** when she wants to be. And for absolutely no reason, just "because". Usually its when she has been at her fathers for a weekend and hasnt yet been de-programmed, or if she has had a bit of a late night.

I think its all just normal - I know it can drive you absolutely up the wall but i am sure its their way of finding their boundaries.

I dont have any tips- just wanted to let you know you arent alone