Thankyou all for your replies and advice!!

I have decided I will definitley take DS to see a psychologist - I was told I might not need a doctors referal for this so I'm making an appointment to see one that I found on the Australian Psychological Society site - thanks for that rayray!!!

I believe his biological father is an ODD sufferer as well, but unfortunatley he never got the help and is only now - at the age of 36 - getting his life on track. I won't let DS to go down this same path!!!

I am also booked in to go to a Triple P seminar at the end of the month.

I will let you all know how it goes.

Thanks again.