Thanks for the support firstly yes lots has happened when I was pg with our second I dropped her off in the morning and didn't return home for 2 weeks because I was seriously ill and in hospital and then this happened again when I had my second (who is also in daycare now)was born and then again after! DH had his back operated on and was in hospital for a week also - so there has been a number of separation issues with hospitals cause I had been in and out probably about 3 or 4 times myself (I'm ok now).

Secondly, DH and I have been arguing abit atm so things are strained but we do try very hard not to have any anxieties in front of the kids but we are trying to worked through things together to stay a family. Money has been a huge factor with my being sick all of a sudden and the way the prvte health system is it cost us a truck load of money we didn't really have at the time and are only just now starting to get back on our feet but I am working full time and now DH is off on workcover!

Third, she complains about not liking one of her carers especially but also tells me she doesn't like her friends and they tell her "they're not her friend" - I'm not so fussed over this I think most kids do go through this but her pre-school group is mixed with 3year olds up to 5 year olds so maybe this is happening more than it needs for her age bracket?? Also she was the centre of attention in the junior room cause she was an early talker and taught herself the alphabet and how to count etc and now she's just blending in with the crowd cause she's progressed into the "kinder room".