This might sound really bad but it works for us - when I went back to work 4 days a week, dd was 18mths old and I had an hour commute. I would dress her in her clothes for the day before bed and she just had to get jacket & shoes in. When I went back full time 6 months later we continued it. Most nights we still do and she will be 4 next month - if she wanted to wear pjs to bed we talked about getting dressed when mummy says etc. I'm on mat leave now for 12mths and will use this time to work on her ability to get ready in the morning in a timely fashion - but when I go back to work bubba will probably be dressed in the clothes for the next day